jane_and.the_dragon

 
joined: 2014-04-15
Worry about your character, not your reputation. Your character is who you are, your reputation is who people think you are. ht
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FREE WILL

     We all have free will to do what we want with our lives as long as we do not break the law, and that is great when it is us who is choosing for ourselves.   What sucks is EVERYONE ELSE has free will too, and sometimes that conflicts with where we think they should do.   Have you ever looked at a choice made by a friend or a family member and thought geeez that was a mistake?   But you keep your real thoughts about it to yourself. Because it is not your place to interfere with their free will.   I tend to do that a lot.   Lol  my brother said I think I am always right.   I told him nope I am not ALWAYS RIGHT, but I am right more then I am wrong.   After all NO ONE is ALWAYS RIGHT.
     Have you ever know someone whom you looked up to, someone who seemed very strong to you, then they do something that makes you think to yourself what were they thinking.   Why would they do that?   It took away a lot of their credibility.   You want to walk up to them and say are you serious?  Why would you do that?   But you know it is their decision to make so you try to be polite.   A really good example was a hair die job a friend of mine got last summer.   Her hair was bright red.   People were making jokes about her looking like Ronald McDonald's sister.   I did not make jokes, but I totally saw their point.   It was the same color as heat miser in The Year Without a Santa Clause cartoon.   Personally I think it was a bad idea, but it was her free will to die it that color if that was her choice.
     It is really hard sometimes to not try to interfere with someone else's free will when you think it is a bad idea, but I try.