I feel I have the knowledge to address the subject of insecurity as I am one of the most insecure people I know. lol What drives me nuts is when someone's insecurity drives them to make really bad decisions. I have had experience with people making complete fools out of themselves because their insecurity stirs up feelings in them. Feelings of memories from past events in your lives. People who are insecure are that way because they have been hurt in the past not because they were born that way. I have known people to pick fights out of jealousy where there was nothing to be jealous of. I have had people give me crap because they thought I wanted their men when there was nothing to that at all. These women were insecure about their men. It is like I told my niece one time no woman can take a man away from a woman he does not want to leave. The same goes for a woman no man can take her away from a man she does not want to leave. My brother lost a girl friend to one of his friends one time and it kinda worked on his mind. Thing is if she did not want to leave him she would not have. Should his friend have went with my brothers girl NO but if she really wanted my brother she would not have left him. I was just recently accused of being obsessed with another woman's husband 
that is so funny to me. First I have a man of my own who is sweet and kind and loves me unconditionally so why would I want her man who has only one time been anything but mean to me, but her insecurity has caused her to act this way. As for me I plan to distance myself from both of them and their drama. Drama kills and I am into life and love and doing things to help people. What kills me is how someone's insecurity can totally color the way they see things so that they read one actions to be something they are not and never was lol. The odd part is when someone does not want someone to do something and then when they realize their actions have stopped them from doing the very thing they did not want them to do in the first place they get mad about that too.
The human mind is a funny thing constantly at war with itself. Our emotions fighting our logic and the fact is the emotions usually win even if they are not right.
