jane_and.the_dragon

 
registro: 15/04/2014
Worry about your character, not your reputation. Your character is who you are, your reputation is who people think you are. ht
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TRUE WORDS

     I saw something on the net today and truer words were never spoken.  It had a dog making a lunge at a bird, and in doing so the dog set itself up to fall off a big cliff.  The caption read " ACTIONS TAKEN IN ANGER CAN NEVER BE UNDONE."  I find that to be quite true.   Three years ago I said something to someone in anger and I lost someone that was very special to me.   I wish I could take it back or apologize , but it is impossible.  The day I said what I said to her she put me on ignore.  You can not fix something if someone is not willing to listen.  If  I knew then what I know now I would have thought more about the decision  to say what I did.  
     I knew what I said would make her stop the fight with me, but I did not look at the big picture.  I could not see the long term results of one statement made in anger.   I never thought she would put me on ignore.  I know it was my own fault for saying something that would cut so deep.  I was angry and not thinking clearly.  My advice to everyone is if you are mad, take a few steps back and calm down a little before you too say something you can not undo.  It is not worth losing a friend over being mad.